The Reed Manga Series – What If I Am Wrong? Part 1

What if I’m wrong?

It’s not a question we often ask ourselves. In fact, most of us actively avoid it. We like being right. We crave certainty—that comforting feeling of knowing we’ve made the best decision. But here’s the truth: we can never be 100% sure. And that’s okay.

Asking, “What if I’m wrong?” doesn’t make you weak. It makes you wise. It’s the kind of question that forces you to pause, reflect, and prepare for the unknown.

Confidence Is Not About Being Right

We’ve been taught that confidence comes from certainty—from knowing exactly what to do, when to do it, and how to get it right. But real confidence? It’s much more powerful than that.

True confidence is built on the understanding that you might be wrong—and being totally fine with it.

It’s not about pretending you have all the answers. It’s about accepting that sometimes, you won’t. And that’s where growth happens.

Take Ruth Wakefield, the creator of the iconic chocolate chip cookie. She wasn’t trying to invent a brand-new dessert. In fact, she was simply trying to make regular chocolate cookies when she ran out of baker’s chocolate. She added chopped-up pieces of semi-sweet chocolate, expecting it to melt and blend into the dough. But it didn’t! The result? One of the most beloved cookies in the world. Her “wrong” assumption gave birth to something new and delightful, a mistake that became a culinary sensation.

The Power of Being Wrong

What if the decision you’re so sure of ends up being the wrong one? What if the path you’ve been following turns out to be a detour? Here’s the thing: when you allow yourself to embrace the possibility of failure, you strip away its power to paralyze you. You shift your mindset from fearing failure to embracing the lessons it offers.

Take the example of Post-it Notes. Spencer Silver, a 3M scientist, was attempting to create a super-strong adhesive. Instead, he ended up with a glue that barely stuck! Rather than seeing it as a failure, a colleague, Art Fry, saw an opportunity. That weak adhesive became the backbone of Post-it Notes, a product that revolutionized office life.

Every time you take a wrong turn, you gain something invaluable: experience. You learn, you adapt, and most importantly, you keep moving forward.

The Growth Mindset Shift

By asking, “What if I’m wrong?”, you unlock a growth mindset. You stop seeing mistakes as the end of the road and start viewing them as stepping stones. The fear of making the wrong choice no longer holds you back. Instead, it propels you forward with curiosity and resilience.

In fact, some of the greatest scientific breakthroughs came from being wrong. When Alexander Fleming returned from holiday to find mold growing in one of his petri dishes, it was a “mistake.” But it was that very mold that led to the discovery of penicillin, the world’s first antibiotic. A wrong turn in the lab saved millions of lives.

You become more open to risks, more willing to try new things. Because even if you fail, the process was worth it. You grow. You evolve.

So, What If You’re Wrong?

The next time you’re faced with a big decision, ask yourself, “What if I’m wrong?” Let it sit with you. Feel the discomfort. Then, realize that no matter the outcome, you’ll be okay. You’ll learn, you’ll grow, and you’ll keep moving forward.

Because the real question isn’t about being right or wrong. It’s about what you’ll learn on the way.

And that—makes all the difference.

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